What was I an idiot? Of course there's an OM...

[In_Shock]

I saw that you had posted this on another thread:
My W went and saw a spiritualist. The spiritualist told her "no matter what happens the kids will be ok." My W has shared that with me. But my counter is, so what? I don't want the kids to be ok. I want the kids to be great, to be fantastic, to feel loved, safe, and secure and be able to use their family and home as a springboard to greater accomplishments and growth. How does that happens as well if your home is a source of pain and feelings of abandonment?

That is so odd-- my W also went to a spiritual reader/psychic who, and I quote W, 'gave her the strength to leave the R' I personally think it's cr@p -- and it upsets me that both our W's used this in even small part of their justification. I don't get it, i don't get it at all. Perhaps I should open a shop reading tea leaves.... must be money in those things!

I always read your posts, and I hope you are doing well. It's SOOOOOOO hard, but you are hanging on. Be good to yourself and enjoy the things you can during this rough time. Just wanted to give you my support and commiserate on the whole 'spiritualist' thing.