Hi Dyna! Welcome! Sorry to hear about your situation. My first recommendation is to read the Divorce Remedy, several times if necessary. I think for now you must not pursue because that will push him further away. Try to disengage as much as possible. It sounds like your H is confused and doesn't know what he wants. Pull back as much as you can to give him space and read the posts here to gain perspective and understanding.
Best wishes... we're all rooting for you!
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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
