I definitely agree with the not dating bit. I feel the exact same way, and yes it's been very hard to not date as opportunities present themselves (it's true, there are a ton of fish in the proverbial sea), but I've seen what it can do when I wasn't married, and I definitely don't want to feel that way again. Man...I wish my W was open to the occassional meetups like that...all I want is like a lunch with our son that she can tag along with if she wants to. Time will tell on that end I guess. As always, my prayers and hugs are with you.
