Gunny that is a pretty good list.I have done some of the same, the yelling, getting angry and I threw a phone at the wall in June. 1st time I ever did that. But like you (not jutifyng getting angry) we have more positives than negatives. At least we are putting it out there looking at it and trying to fix it. Hard stuff I know. But we will be better people for it. I too took the M for granted but so did my W. Sometimes I felt that I was not a part of the family. W and D will talk and do things and I felt left out so I built resenment. I know your W had a part in here and all is not one persons fault. I bet she will miss you before you know it. On Friday be strong, confident. Women like strong confident man. It will not be the end of the world. Chances are that she will realize that the grass is not greener on the other side. My friend went though a breakup several years ago. I told her about my stich and she said that she has stopped dating man because all they are looking for is a mommy to cook, clean and do their laundry. So there is hope. Hang in there buddy.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
