Good job Hopeful, you are doing great! I cringed a bit at the invite, better just to mention you are going. I he wants to show up let him suggest it. Remember he is a guy who likes to pursue.

You really are doing very well with this. One thing to expect -- if H does warm up to you, expect him to run hot and cold. This can be very confusing and will hurt if you don't understand. H may "try on" being nice or affectionate, then will catch himself and want to let you know that everything is not ok, and he will retreat or shut off. My W would hold my hand while we were out to dinner, then when we got home she would go sleep on the couch and not talk to me. You will wonder WTF?

Please know that hot and cold is a good sign, expect it and do not react to the cold, just let it roll off you and know it is normal.

Be proud of yourself today!

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015