Saving the M and caring for a baby

[KenF]

"he's the WAS not you..."

is he still? i think the dynamic has changed and now she's the WAS.

had you said "he was the WAS now you're the WAS..." i would agree without reservation, and think you're Dr Seuss.

put yourself in his head, and he's hearing all the things many of our WASs have said

"i love you but cant live with you"
"i want this to work but cant do it right now"
"its only temporary"
"i'm moving out only because i need space"
"i'll come back"

all textbook WAS phrases.

its only because we believe DueinMay's words that we choose not to see this.

if he was here, telling us his story from the past 2 months, we'd tell him to DB, GAL, she has OM, etc. and this includes not saying ILY and not initiating ML.

and it wouldnt surprise me one bit if she did become an actual WAS. i think she's already on her way to becoming one.