hey workinghard, Sorry you are going through this.I agree with your thoughts on the s. Although in some ways it has been good having my w around for the last 4 months, overall, it would have been better for us if we had seperated soon after she dropped the bomb.
I say this because it would have helped me with my dbing, in that she would not have been around every day to see me when I was not at my best, and lets face it, noone can put on a happy face 24 hrs a day every day for 4 months. If we were sep, I would have been able to pick and choose the times I saw her, and been much more in control of the situation.
But, because of finances, we decided to stay together, reasoning that if we did eventually d, it would not be good for either one of us to start off with dimminished savings.
In your case, having kids changes the whole equation, Have no experience there , but I do feel for you. Keep hanging in, you still have time, anything can happen over the next few months. Gunny
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
