That is indication that your detatch is working. Give space! When H engages with you and starts to be nice to you it's going to be tempting to run in and smother him. Be careful! You invited him to a party, remember to take that in baby steps. If he doesn't respond or doesn't show up, don't mention it! Don't let him see that bothers you. You put yourself out there with the invite, be careful here. Sounds like he may be starting to come around, you need to remember not to pursue. Very very hard, against your instinct, but it works! Hang tough!
--Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
