I just won't talk about the past no more, how are we to move on when we linger on the past.
VC, she does call me a lot!!, thats the problem!!
Take yesterday for example, I had 3-4 calls during the day from her regarding the developments on the new house,solicitor, etc, all not needed really, I'd call her if there was any developments?
Then last night I had 2 calls regarding the kids, again nothing really.
Then late on around 10.00pm, I get a call asking me to speak to our son as he wouldn't go to bed?, again nothing really to do with me, he lives with her??, was she checking I was home????
I have not called her since Saturday/Sunday??
But we speak loads during the day?
I've even been ignoring her calls during the day, but she keeps calling back!!! then she asks me was I ignoring her!!
I told her yesterday, that I just want the house sorting, our finances agreed, then we can move on, she sounded quiet sad??
I didn't say anything, but I could detect something? Maybe this is why she keeps calling me??
Either way, she has to just live the life she has decided works best for her, but at the moment it feels we are together, the talking, the helping each other out with kids, etc, but we are just living apart??
Very confusing at times, and hard to move on really?
I just have to maintain the "no contact" rule from me, and leave her alone.
But the big question to me is, if she hates/dislikes me, the hurt I caused,etc, why maintain such regular contact?? Thats the part I just don't understand, and find really hard?
Sorry VC, I don't know if her nephew said anything, but she hasn't mentioned it to me, so I don't know???
