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I am really bothered and need some help on this subject. My h called my d cell phone but my other d (his step d) answered and basically he asked d if he could pick up my youngest for his visit after school tomorrow. The problem I have is why is he arranging visitation through my children? I have talked (more like yelled) about this once before, and he said he didnt realize he had to clear it with me.

In fairness he mentioned last week he thought he would be picking her up on Wednesday but nothing was for sure.

We havent spoke for a week and our last conversation was good, I do not understand why he thinks this ok. He went through the crazy visitation with my ex and always made a comment that it was wrong.

Help! I do not want to react or respond negative I just want the problem addressed.