kml, I know what you mean about the massage and I think that would do wonders for my shoulders since I'm wearing them around my ears right now.
LC, JB- thank you so much for the support- the people on this board have really saved me these last few months. I am so grateful for all of you!!
Strange thing. H texted and wants to meet in the morning, using what kind of sounds like an excuse to do it...not sure what to make of it but I guess we'll see.