25yearsmlc, I appreciate that you don't think all women should follow suit. And I appreciate you stating your opinions in any case and why you feel that way. I feel I'm learning something from the thoughts of various women, especially since my wife seems to be a little bit off the normal path in this regard.
Indeed, she might be disappointed with the sexual experiences she had with me. I've certainly asked her, and the only sexual complaint has been that I want it too often, or that I want it at all (in later years). She has never - not once - complained about my not touching her enough, etc. The only touching complaints have been to avoid her private areas, no exceptions.
Yes, she used to think I was a bit off base until we went to sex therapy, after which she seemed to complain less about my desire for a sexual relationship. She accepts it as normal, though she doesn't want to participate herself.
And yes, I have mentioned to her that if we keep up the way we have for the last decade, we'll never have sex. She lets the moment pass without comment. If I were to repeat the statement, she would say I'm pressuring her and that's not sexy.
