You may want to check the threads on the open forum called Piecing Our Marriage Back Together... there is some good stuff there. Also 25yearsmlc seems to have made it work and is quite active on this site. Hang in there!!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife