There they are again, on the phone.. Amazing how much they talk all day. H has no work (2nd day in a row) so I get to experience all their conversations, back and back texts. I tried remembering when I would be on the phone with him years ago, talking about everything and nothing. Where did we end up.. The past year or so all I got was a call around 1-2pm asking if there will be food. I was fed up, nothing more.. Will there be food.. One day I remember I got fed up when I saw him calling as I knew what he was calling for so I asked if he had anything else to say to me besides what's for dinner as I'm a person to and all he calls me for every single day is to ask about food. I must have been on speaker because he asked my brother (they work together) if he really does that. I hear my brother laughing and saying he does.. Then he got upset and started yelling at me that not like I do it.. I don't cook or if I do it's terrible.. This is not true as I used to make food every day since I got a home based job.. The time I didn't cook was when I also worked, or when we first met.. I never cooked for years and he still loved me.. Now I could bend over backwards and it still wouldn't be good enough.. Moving soon, he's still not concerned at all.. In fact I have a feeling they're planning a trip with ow to somewhere. I was still asked to help him prepare his paperwork.. And keep the car insurance on my name as it's cheaper.. But really I'm no good for anything. I told him I don't trust to keep the insurance under my name and have him and ow rally around caring about nothing.. He said she wouldn't drive as she doesn't have proper license, I said I've seen pictures of her on facebook driving our car, so not like that makes a difference.. Not to mention that since this whole thing started in June he must of gotten around $2000 in tickets for various reasons.. I told him that if ow is really as smart and intelligent as he says she is shell be able to help him out.. I got no comment back.. Which is.. What do you say to that.. But knowing myself I'm not sure, I might still do it and help him, but I really shouldn't.
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012