So here is another twist in the puzzel. Two years ago my H's grandfather died who he was super close to and raised him. After his death he wanted to move into their house (it's huge) and live there with his grandma. He had promised he papa that he would take care of her. I agreed and we have lived here for two years and brought our son into the world here. But now he has left and he kinda expects me to continue living here. I told him that I wouldn't be here forever but he knows I can't move right away. I LOVE his family and they love me too. Everybody is shocked by this and they say he is confused, acting too quickly, and making mistakes. My question is what is the right thing to do; move or stay? Should I stay and continue db here in hopes tht he will return or move and show him I can be independent? I feel like if I stay then my chances might be better b/c he will see me more and it is also better for me financially but I also need to be independent and prove to myself and him that I can do this on my own. I think that would make him rethink things if he couldnt just come over whenever he chose and I think it makes this too easy for him me being here, b/c he knows where i am and that i'm not bringing anyone elese home. Thoughts?
