I just want things to be like they were when I felt like he loved me "enough".
I am so sorry for this stitch you find yourself in, but you are trying to make this man fall in love with you and M you. That is about as pursuing as a person can get.
Isn't Divorce Busting all about trying to make someone fall (back) in love and start a new relationship? Maybe I'm reading this all wrong, but Michele encourages us to expect miracles and that is what I'm going to do as I try to follow her other advice.
I don't want to focus too much on what I'll do if Michele's techniques don't work, because I am wanting to expect success, not failure or "more of the same".
