I just want things to be like they were when I felt like he loved me "enough".
I am so sorry for this stitch you find yourself in, but you are trying to make this man fall in love with you and M you. That is about as pursuing as a person can get. If the man realizes he doesn't feel those type of emotions for you, then don't settle. You will spend the rest of your life wanting to feel like he loved you "enough".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
