When life hands you lemons add alcohol and stir!

[kat727]

First of all you didn't push him into someone else's arms. He did that all on his own. It wasn't about you. Problems in your marriage, those you can take partial responsibility for.

Now your job is to still be the you that you want to be and not because of Gabe but just because of you. You have grown so much in the time I have known you, don't you even doubt that for one minute!

As for seeing the OW's face, nope I can say that I have but then again I don't know her so it is only from pics that my ex posts for my kids do I ever really see her. I agree with kml, use a stop sign when ever your mind goes there. It doesn't serve any purpose to reflect on her because it could have been anyone.

kat