I kinda love that your ex has 3 y/o twins...(though I sort of feel bad for them when they figure out their dad isn't a dad to his other kids. And how long can he blame YOU for that? Does he still?)
every milestone the twins will have, he'll wonder about the ones he missed. And when your d has her own children and he's a grandpa, what then?
Oh, as for moving to Alaska, ignore the part of my signature block that seems to bash it. I found the winters hard but mostly b/c h got nutty within a month of landing there. Just BE BUSY and you'll be fine. Especially if you already know people there. Moving there 8 months pregnant probably wasn't the smartest thing I ever did.
Glad you are both on the other side.
I DO think newcomers, well maybe a year into being "new" ought to read about what it's like when things go well.
Frankly, it's a rare LBSer who doesn't grow from this experience, nightmare that it might be at the time.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
