You're not the only one Hopeful... and my W and I are still together. But still, when my phone rings or I get a text message I still get a thought, is it her? We used to text each other 5-10 times a day probably and call each other at least once if not twice. Now... really, nothing.
I think part of it is that is so instinctive and a trained behavior. Given time you can train yourself to do the opposite.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD