Saturday was a good day. I got in some good GAL'ing and forgot about my sitch for most of the day. I went to class that morning. My mom and I went to a new pizza place nearby and sat an ate pizza and watched my college's football game. We went to a men's store and had one of my suits altered. We just spent some good quality time together.
That evening my mother hit the road to head back home. I went to dinner with my best friend and his family for his older sisters birthday so we had a really good time. Afterwards we all went out to see a live band perform and we ended up having a really good night. Apparently one of her friends took interest in me because she ended up telling my friend's sister she wanted to know more about me. I haven't looked at women in any kind way for so long that I didn't notice one bit. I'm not even close to being where I'd need to be for that and I'm still a married man.
Sunday I went to church and had the chance to fellowship some as we had a church tailgate all day. Our services were condensed down to one hour and many church members brought their BBQ pits and grills to just cook out on the church parking lot all day. It was good to fellowship but I felt kind of out of place because it was a lot of families and couples. I don't know a TON of people at my church so I just felt kind of awkward but it was good for me all the same. I finally left and headed to my DivorceCare class. After leaving there I decided to treat myself and go to the mall and buy a few things. I've been saving like crazy so I splurged a bit on some fall clothes. From there I went downtown to meet up with some friends to watch some games at a sports bar.
All in all Sunday was a great day and I GAL'd away. I got in bed early that night and was fully rested for Monday morning.
No contact with my W on Friday, Saturday or Sunday truly brought me back to a "good place."
mid 20s Tgther 7 yrs W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11 W filed 05/11/11 I moved out 08/05/11 Mediation mid Oct 11 D final Dec 11 Now what? ...2012