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HELP! I have not heard from my H since last week when he dropped our d off, this has become quite normal. However he suggested that we have lunch on a couple different occasions, but I did not push and now it seems he is not going to pursue that. WHy am I so negative.

My H can and does just push people out of his life, I have seen him do it over the last 11 years.. I think that is what I am facing, we have been separated for over 2 months and we have not discussed anything.

I am afraid to mention anything because I do not want to push, however I am in complete limbo.