Thanks as always Telemark for imparting your infinite wisdom.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
But that's the kicker...we have done the serious heart-work to make ourselves better, but our W's have not. Even if they decided to return tomorrow, would we eventually go through this all over again?
Nope. Can't do it. Frankly I would like some more time to continue to improve, but I feel like my W has a ways to go. I DO NOT want to go through this all over again.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
No thanks. I'd rather slide down a 50 foot razor blade into a pool of saltwater than experience this again.
Ouch! That's a tough call, but I think I agree with you. You do have a way of putting things.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
You're absolutely correct about the payoff coming in other areas of our lives. Those payoffs are what we need to focus on now, because they are what is working. If we get a second chance to rebuild a better M, that's a bonus. If not, we will eventually get a new chance with someone who values us for who we are and who we have become.
Exactly. And when people ask me how things are going, I tell them parts of my life are fantastic, other parts not so much. I try to focus on the fantastic parts as much as I can.
