I've stopped discussing my sitch with my friends. I'm so tired of the "Your much better off without him" speech. Yes they love me and they mean well, but I don't want to hear it, even if they are right. I can't seem to get people to understand that.
I know exactly what you mean, DG. In my case, the majority of my friends are very supportive of what I'm doing. However, I hear this and/or get it implied from by my own Mom. (Ugh!)