My W never acknowledged flowers I bought for her... then later, she said, "thanks. that was unnecessary"...

So I bought her more flowers a couple weeks later...

and she said, "Stop! It's making me uncomfortable."

So what I found was... just because the outward response wasn't negative... didn't mean her internal response was positive...

All of us here know that what you did was nice...

All of us here know WHY you did that...

So does your W...

Just a reminder that we often say here, "believe none of what you hear and only 50% of what you see..."