I'm good and the well wishes are appreciated, but you know, if you know me at all, that there was an underlying reason for the post...
I have read lately, even when I don't post, I do read to keep up...
People who have reconciled posting about doing the work...
People who haven't reconciled but are single and happy posting about doing the work...
People who have moved on and are happy, post about doing the work...
The common theme, besides all of us being struck by the MLC crud....
Is doing the work...
We have some new posters of late, which always breaks my heart, although I know there will always be new people experiencing this, just like there will always be people before them with different outcomes...
The work, the changes, the GAL, and 180's and whatnot...
are important...
Additionally, each MLC, and each MLC outcome, is different and unique, even though we all do have similarities.
Life doesn't end just because of MLC, even though it may feel like it for a while...
Life doesn't end just because of change, even though we might want it to...
I hate change...
HATE it. I resist change like some people resist root canal...
I bet that surprises many of you.
This whole experience, has helped to open me more to it. I still don't like it, but I have learned how to look beyond the horizon and see what is there...
and how to not be afraid of it...
We each have different lessons to learn from this, different demons to overcome...
Find them...it's part of the journey...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
