E, Glad to hear things are moving in a positive direction. The road will be long and hard but you are strong and worth the effort so just keep putting one foot in front of the other.
The fears, pain, anger, etc. that your kids are experiencing will fade over time. They are on their own journey now, their own timeline to heal and forgive.
Keep loving and supporting them they way you have been and trust that God WILL continue to take care of your family.
Looking forward to hearing about your Retr. experience. It's about time we get a positive story on this forum!
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Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.