alcoholic H decided he wants D

[imthemom]

so I guess its commen to think you are getting somewhere and then realize you havent at all...
Im feeling like this just a waste of time, when someone decideds they dont love you anymore I think they just dont...and you are pretty much left with the kids like colateral damage. Then you just have to figure out how to pick up the pieces and not be bitter, even though you tolerated crap for years because of what ever issues your spouse had (alcohol, OW whatever..) and for the you get handed a big bag of CRAP to deal with, like trying to make sure your kids arent so screwed up they make the same mistakes....I dont think I will ever trust another living soul on this earth...