Smooth?! What is that?! Like most LD spouses after years of unfounded complaints I don't even know what smooth is.
She claims I'm not smooth, and a sex maniac, and a bunch of other things designed to deflect from the fact that SHE has intimacy issues. I've seen her get very friendly and touchy, rubbing my chest and getting close, only to out of nowhere say, "I'm fat, I know I am"
Like she was insulting herself to get her out of the mood.
That's not even the real issue right now. I post this hesitantly because well my wife is back, she no longer talks about divorce, she intends to stay for the long haul and we have been very happy for the last month or two.
Our fights are fewer, shorter, less intense, all around good. I have been very happy. I've set to have the marriage GB wants to have. Things are not perfect though, and we both seem to backtracking on issues like respect, and controlling our emotions.
I feel things could degenerate to the way it was, so of course we end up having silly little fights. If this is piecing, well our puzzles have more pieces then most.
