You'd be doing her a favor in the long run, but teaching her to appreciate a good man. MIght not be you, or down the road it might be. But this path is teaching her some bad habits unbecoming a woman of character and soul, with a loving heart.
It's not good stuff coming from her, or going your way.
But I hear you about wanting to be in the right place before you choose a course correction/shift.
All I can say though is, Life is short. These are your healthiest best years. Think about that.
2-4 times a week of mutually enjoyable monogamous sex is the norm. If you are both high sex drive, imagine what that could mean...
but instead you are in this constant tug of war.
GB, just so I know I've asked, you ARE "smooth" in your approach, right?
Okay, just had to ask...
Good luck, soldier on.
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