We did not attend counseling before. The A happened because I was living on the opposite coast from my family for weeks at a time and I was quite depressed and lonely. I didn't know what I wanted and made a dreadful mistake. I liked my friend but not loved, we did activities and hung-out together but she knew how much I missed my home. I broke it off with her a number of times. I was preparing to move back home when this all broke in early Sept.
