It bothered me too when you said your daughter couldn't be genuinely bi because she was feminine. Gender identity and sexual orientation are separate issues. Think butch gay men.
I think OT's concern is the negative construction you (unintentionally, because don't sound at all homophobic) put on it-- sexuality the result of trauma = mental illness.
I hope that makes sense. It is only natural given the timing you would wonder, but take care not to let your D know what you think about it. Only time will tell if this is a fad, or who she really is.
did you really read my post? That's pretty much what I said. I listed about half the other reasons for my position, which has been thoroughly examined and thoughfully formed...
And I didn't say she "could not be bi BECAUSE she was feminine"..(See Portia De Rossi)
I simply made ONE comment to illustrate in support that she had no signs of it earlier. I gave one real but somewhat weak example b/c statistically there are fewer (but YES there are SOME), lesbians who show those feminine signs, than straight women. Think butch lesbians, who outnumber lesbians as feminine as my d, statistically.
I have other reasons for believing as I do, but that's really beyond the scope of this thread and it's a hijack.
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