I just never really thought I'd be here until I actually found myself here, you know?
And to clarify, this is to say that I had actually given up on the idea of ever reconciling with him in this way before our divorce last year, so when he presented the idea several months back I was surprised. But other than the time that he was dating OW, we've had a friendly coparenting relationship.
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011