My WAW came over yesterday. I thought she would be over for awhile, but left after 45 minutes. We discussed further her goals of walking away from home/condo...didn't make much progress. Then she went upstairs and spent only 15 minutes going through some items and then left.
It was evident she didn't want to be here. She was out late the night before and tired but also the reality of sorting through her stuff was a little daunting.
She again gave me a hug when she arrived was cordial/borderline friendly. Is she softening? Not really. Nothing has changed regarding the D and sadly the process unwinds as it unwinds. It's clear that she wants to move on as quickly. It's becoming more evident to me that she believes being on her own will make her happy, but that's fools gold and I think she knows that to a certain extent, but it will not dissuade her from her original goal. It's sad to be left behind, to not be part of her journey.
Intellectually I "understand" it, but I wish my emotions could catch up.
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11
