I'm already assuming that any contact she initiates with me because she want something.
She called me his morning crying because she has some problems at work that may cause her to be fired. I listened and was sympathetic. I asked her to let me know what happens. Then I sent her an encouraging email telling her to keep her chin up and it will all be okay.
Again, she probably wants something, so I'm not getting my hopes up. I am curious why she called me. I thought it was due to a question I text her earlier about my D and daycare. She didn't mention it on the phone and I had to ask her if she got it.
Here's a good test for me. I'm going to proceed as usual. I'm not going to ask her how it went...I'll let her tell me if she wants. I'm not going to initiate any more contact than what I usually do. I'll be positive and encouraging if she contacts me, but I'm not going to read into anything. Also, I am not going to get stuck in asking why or hoping this is my break. It is what it is...nothing more.