I think if your W used the Florida business trip as an example during your talk, it was probably a bigger deal to her than you realize. In the scheme of things, it's not a big deal. However, if it's big to her, hopefully you were able to just listen.
Originally Posted By: workinghardguy
Maybe if she gets C it will help.
It sounds like she would really benefit from C. Your M would likely benefit, too. It sounds like she really does need to get healthy first. Unfortunately, she's not going to hear it from you, even if your intentions are pure. She may be thinking your M is most of the cause of what's going on. It's probably true, though that it does play a part.
