It doesn't sound like he would be receptive to listening or sharing at this point in time. MC is not something that can be sprung on someone. If you end up in a R convo with him then it can be worked into the conversation and only if you are not in a heated argument because the answer will always be no.
Glad to hear you have a group of girls. That's imperative for your own sanity!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!