Oh yeah, I noticed he reacts angrily when you point out his available choices or say "so don't". Maybe when he vents don't be helpful, just acknowledge his feelings with something non-committal like "uh huh" or "that must be rough".
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.