WAW, and a bisexual open marriage part 4

[25yearsmlc]

Have the two of you ever thought about sex counseling? I mean since the very beginning it seems every conflict you have is about sex.

and one other thing, her anger. She comes up with reasons to reject you AND be mad at you for it.

Let's review the evening. You expressed a need that is both natural and loving (I mean, did you storm up to her and say "I'm HORNY SO PUT OUT!"??...I doubt it.)

So YOU were rejected by her but SHE leaves for the couch (rejecting you some more) and the SHE is mad at you and SHE gets to feel mistreated by you...
The manipulation is amazing and NOT NEW... (Can't believe I never got to do this--not with sex- but as a kid I could have stolen and then said I "needed" it and they were wrong to deny me and then pout and demand an apology from my parents for not providing enough for me....

hey, the analogy might be flawed but the point remains, GB, see thru this!

My young soldier friend, you deserve so much more than this!

I'm a big believer in m, but this treatment is not, imo, likely to lead to a long OR happy one.

see through the manipulations, GB. See them for what they are.