Just read the stages. I think h is hitting the anger stage...but he has already done a lot of the things mentioned in replay. He sought the ea with ow. He said he did it because it made him feel better ( taking what he wants without caring how it would hurt me ) and chasing his youth.
The other day he told me he didnt want to be stuck working in a particular job forever and acted angry about it and i simply said to him " so dont" ...."its your choice" but even THAT made him mad.
He is truly angry about getting older and not having accomplished his dream of making music and writing that hit song....
He is rewriting history too....claims he was forced to give up his true self when he married me and had our d.
I do hope he makes it through...it is so hard to see him in this much pain
