Gary - I am new to this same sitch, a WAW. I wish I could tell you that there is an easier way, but I don't think there is. Just stick to the LRT's and DB'ing and if it works great. If not, at least you have been honorable and tried to honor your sacred vows to the wife you love so much. I'm going through this too so I don't say this lightly to you. I wish you the best in this!
