I have read the DB book, taken the coaching, and spoken to many great people here on this blog. I just don't understand how any WAW could actually walk away, turn 180 degrees on her husband and kids, alienate everyone, have a complete personality change, potentially lose her family and home forever, cheat on her husband, and then through the magic of the LRT's and DB'ing, work things out for herself and then come back to the family. Intellectually I get the concept, but while I go thru the DB'ing and follow its advice, I have such a hard time believing it can actually work. Has anyone here actually seen this work? I want to believe so bad but it seems so counterintuitive! Please, if anyone knows of anyone where this has worked pls let me know!!! Thanks so much!!!