"Sharks and fish can be friends" from Finding Nemo

[BeingMe]

Just remember the good you got by being married to him .... children and grandchildren. That's what I keep telling myself. The time wasn't wasted. Can't replace the kids, wouldn't want to, but exH can be replaced, even if only by a dog.

Yes, you must be very angry. I am, and probably all of us are at one stage or another. We are entitled to that anger. But, don't let it last too long. Have you forgiven him and OW? Not for them, but for yourself. Forgive and let go. I am slowly doing that, but it's hard ... when you don't know the why and no true explanation.

And that is how I feel, constipated emotions.

Laughed out loud at this. You've just named my emotions. I have just dropped my H off for yet another trip (two weeks). While he's here and while he's away, I am continually stopping up me feelings.