It stand to reason, the longer we stand... the more likely the chances are that we will R... or that we will D...
That is just one moment in time, DG... just words... and IF he files... it will JUST be a piece of paper...
Take a moment to take care of your immediate, emotional wound and then get up and move forward...
That is the task of the LBS... that, and working on the idea that after everything is said and done, we might be D and we need to be confident moving on with our lives...