By the way, I had to add this. On the forums over at Surviving Infidelity, there are several threads dedicated to "Dumb Things WAS' Say." This should go on there.

W (last night): You know, you trying to cut me out of my life is only going to hurt the next relationship that you have. Some girl is going to be like, "His ex-W was the perfect W and GF to him for six years and he just didn't want to have anything to do with her anymore? What's wrong with him?"

I told my little sister about that and we had a big laugh. She said, "What woman is going to be like, 'He has a great relationship with his ex-wife? YES! This is great!"


Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut