too tired to really do a good reply but thanks 25 and Rick

Especially for 25's virtual slap. Dude, it hurts!! But it made me take notice.

Yeah, I'm pity partying right now --- and NO I definitely am not giving up/in. I'm working right THROUGH the pain and even though it's not always apparent, I have really learned some valuable things already.

Will write more tomorrow. I've actually got a paper due tomorrow. (I cannot stop going to school.....:) I've been in college literally since 1984. Several degrees later....LOL....) that's one of the things about GAL. I've actually always been SOOOOOO busy --- one of W's complaints was that I put her last.....

Anyway.... i'll respond more detail tomorrow because as usual GEMS to reply to. (hugs) and I'm thinking of you guys also.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed