A D will not make you feel better... when I read some of the people who have just gone through it or some who are here still contributing after their own Ds... I'm convinced the paper nor the act makes one feel better...
It's how we conduct ourselves and our good thoughts about ourselves and our own value that makes us feel better...
For me, I'm in no rush, but I will be the one to file D... but I already feel much better about myself... I felt good about myself BEFORE I actually made the commitment to myself to file...
IOW, I make the choice to file not out of anger or some belief that it will SAVE me... I file because my M is over... for me...
