oh and as for saying he wanted to leave before and didnt but did this time, i dont know the answer to that. That is one I am still trying to figure out. He says he made his decision and now he has noone to blame but himself. however financially he will be fine because i have all the debt, not him. he wont face that until the divorce.
just a quick question...he thinks by leaving you that only you will have to pay off the debt? What debt is this that is ALL yours? (School loans?)
Are you in a state that divides the assets and debts equally?
You probably ought to see a L just so you know your rights. Not to DO something but to KNOW what you face.
Don't tell HIM what you learn...it's for you.
It's empowering to know that you are not trapped or what the trade offs are with your choices. That's all I'm saying. Do whatever you do, with your eyes wide open.
And what are those 180s and GAL activities? I can't stress them enough b/c they'll do more for your point of view and your Pos Mental Attitude than anything else I know.
AND that makes you more calm, less angry, less confrontational, more of the woman you want to become.
Good luck!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
