I'm not sure what you read into my post 25, but I said none of those bad things about you.

I said, maybe you shouldn't assume you know DD as well as you think. Start with a beginners mind. Don't judge. Doing otherwise hurts kids when they are where your DD is, not matter the background story. You seem to agree, so I'm not sure why I seem to have hurt you, but apologies as it was not my intent.


Best,
Oldtimer