DG I too have been following your sitch, I have been in your shoes for way to long. I have found myself and learned that I will be ok, my realtionship with my girls has been restored. I am a work in progress as they say. However how did you know your time with your C is over. I have been seeing a C for about 18 months. I was twice a week and now I am down to once a month. I feel real good after talking with her, however its seems we never talk about the same stuff, in my realtionship or just about me....
On another note, my D will be final this Thursday and my STBXW is still on my insurance and will be for another 6 weeks. However at her job she just got her insurance and its lousy to say the least...(I work for a city and have great health, vision and dental)....we are on somewhat goods terms and today I had lunch with her to talk about our five daughters and somethings about college. Anyhow she told me that her company may be closing her store and that means no insurance.....I know and think that she has been pondering her situation with OM, she has said a few little things that I have caught on to.....I know health insurance is not a reason and as of right now I don't know if I would consider a R....any advice, sorry to hijack but once I got started I could not stop.....Have a great day.
